Anxiety, Family Conflict, Support, Toddlers, Women's Issues

Work-Life Balance for Moms with Toddlers: Real-Life Tips for the Working Mama

If you’re a full-time working mom of a toddler, you know the juggle is real. Between daycare drop-offs, work deadlines, laundry piles, tantrums, and maybe remembering to eat lunch—it’s a lot. At The Birth Chat and Barksdale Missions, we believe in honest conversations and practical support. We see you trying to do it all, and… Read More Work-Life Balance for Moms with Toddlers: Real-Life Tips for the Working Mama

Ask for Help & Advice, Baby, Baby Health, Baby Sleep, Bottle Feeding, Breastfeeding, Childbirth, Doula, Info, Postpartum, Postpartum Support, Pregnancy, Support

What No One Tells You About Being a First-Time Mom

Are you a first-time mom? Maybe you’re currently expecting? Or perhaps you’re trying to conceive? No matter where you are on this journey, it’s never too early or too late to start thinking about the joys, challenges, and surprises that come with becoming a parent. Everyone has their own opinion about how you should feed… Read More What No One Tells You About Being a First-Time Mom

Support, Teens

The Power of a Visual Timesheet: Reclaiming Balance in Your Daily Life

Life is full of responsibilities—work, family, personal goals, health, social commitments, and self-care. With so many demands on our time, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, stretched too thin, or stuck in a cycle of burnout. If you’ve ever felt like there just aren’t enough hours in the day, you’re not alone. The truth is, we… Read More The Power of a Visual Timesheet: Reclaiming Balance in Your Daily Life

Child, Support, Teens

Navigating Life with ADHD: A Parent’s Perspective

Life can be incredibly challenging for both parents and children impacted by Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Many children with ADHD are unfairly labeled as “bad” kids, leaving parents and caregivers feeling frustrated, judged, and often defeated. As an adult with ADHD and a mother of children who also have ADHD, I’ve experienced my fair… Read More Navigating Life with ADHD: A Parent’s Perspective

Blended Families, Child, Siblings, Stepchild, Stepparent, Support, Teens

Bidirectional Relationships in Stepfamilies: Mutual Impact Between Stepparents and Stepchildren

The was written as an assignment for FS468 Parenting in Contemporary Societies at Mississippi University for Women in Spring 2019. Bidirectional Relationships in Stepfamilies: Mutual Impact Between Stepparents and Stepchildren Ashley BarksdaleMississippi University for WomenApril 10, 2019 Introduction In the United States, approximately 9% of married couples and 12% of cohabiting households contain resident stepchildren… Read More Bidirectional Relationships in Stepfamilies: Mutual Impact Between Stepparents and Stepchildren

Our Village: Shared Journeys in Parenting

Matters of the Heart – Heart Defects in Infancy (Part 2)

February is Congenital Heart Defect awareness month. 1 in 100 babies is born with a congenital heart defect.  In the United States, nearly 400,000 babies are born with a congenital heart defect each year.  [Read Part 1 Here] Providing Support to the Family Symone was discharged from the hospital on Friday, September 16, 2005. We… Read More Matters of the Heart – Heart Defects in Infancy (Part 2)

Our Village: Shared Journeys in Parenting

Matters of the Heart – Heart Defects in Infancy (Part 1)

February is Congenital Heart Defect awareness month.   1 in 100 babies is born with a congenital heart defect.  In the United States, nearly 400,000 babies are born with a congenital heart defect each year.  [Read Part 2 Here] In 2005, my oldest daughter was the 1 in the 100.   Like my first pregnancy, all tests… Read More Matters of the Heart – Heart Defects in Infancy (Part 1)

Infant Mortality, Info, Our Village: Shared Journeys in Parenting, Postpartum

Black Maternal Mortality: Awareness, Action, and Change

WARNING: This post discusses maternal and infant loss. In the days following the tragic passing of Erica Garner, conversations about Black maternal mortality have surfaced again. Blogs, articles, and discussions have emerged from people of all backgrounds, attempting to analyze the root causes of why Black mothers are dying at alarming rates. Yet, I’ve seen… Read More Black Maternal Mortality: Awareness, Action, and Change

Info, Our Village: Shared Journeys in Parenting, Pregnancy

Counting Kicks: A Simple Way to Monitor Your Baby’s Well-being

WARNING: Infant loss is mentioned in this blog post. I am a mother of four—three here with me and one who rests in paradise. My third child, Annaya, was stillborn at 39 weeks due to missed preeclampsia. There were so many missed warning signs, signs that—had I known then what I know now—could have saved… Read More Counting Kicks: A Simple Way to Monitor Your Baby’s Well-being